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olddogs 给你贴一下,总之意思就是,不要做“大选择题”,完全可以换个清闲一点的工作,留出更多时间给你想做的事情。慢慢“脱敏”,直到最后你完全准备好了。
Originally Answered: At age 25, would you pursue a good paying corporate job that makes you unhappy or a hobby that makes you happy but has no guarantee to pay the bills?
Your question is the problem. Stop making big decisions and focus on closing the gap with where you want to be.
A successful life is not made of easy, clean cut choices. It looks like this:(图传不上来,意思是路径曲折,但一直前进,走到终点)
Sadly, far too many look like this:(意思是你只有想法,没有想清楚路径)
Now I know this sounds obvious, but consider. Have you ever seen a guy desperately enamoured with a girl, but he can't bear to talk to her? Or someone who wants to get fit, but they won't step in a gym? How about someone who wants better career options but stays exactly where they are?
You always need to be closing the gap.
Stop making this a big scary decision and start taking lots of continuous small steps. Take something you love doing - or if you're not sure what that is, something you'd like to try. And move towards it now.
In your case, you don't have to choose between a well-paid job you don't like and the unknown. You have countless other options:
1. Start up a small business in your evenings
2. Ask your boss what you could do for them to get promoted
3. Teach yourself a new skill that interests you
4. Write a blog or a book
Some steps will lead to greater things. Others will be dead ends. But as long as you sit feeling paralysed, I can assure you nothing will change at all.
Do not, and I shall repeat for emphasis, do not defer this until a "better time". If you make a habit of that, you'll wake up one idle Monday and wonder how you let your whole life fly away.